Anonymous: i go to an all girls private high school and i am popular here, i have friends and really get along with everyone, but my closest friends go to public school. I really want a good education but in the academic point of things, i am miserable. I dread going to school and my grades are slipping. I think if i went to public school I could be with my closest friends and the academics wouldn't be as challenging. I am stuck and have no idea if i should switch schools. any advice?

You should make the best out of every situation given. I know you might not be happy with the school you are at now, but that doesn’t mean give up and not try. (Ps. I went to a private school to. Just because its public school doesn’t exactly mean that its so much easier, you are still going to have equally challenging academic work) Even though your friend isn’t there doesn’t necessarily mean that that’s the problem, its probably many different factors contributing to it. Put yourself in a different situation, imagine that you are going to college and your friend goes to a different college. Just because your friend doesn’t go to the same one you are at.. that doesn’t mean you’re gonna drop out. Trust me I know being with your friend in school makes things much easier, but you can always make more friends too! Make special days for you and your friend to hang out and talk about everything. Sorry if I seem a bit harsh, but you need to try and push your self to excel. Don’t have a close friend going to another school hold you back. Wish you the best♥

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Anonymous: i reached out to someone I miss terribly and who I haven't seen or spoken to since August. I don't know why I'm suddenly missing him: our previous relationship was mostly physical. He's responded but if I were to see him again, i don't even know how to communicate to him that I want things to be different. I have a feeling it won't work, but I want to try?

I would say go for it, at the end of the day you don’t wanna regret not doing it. Communication is super important in any relationship/friendship and if you wanna be just friends with him I would tell him. Whats the worst that could happen, you guys don’t talk again (which most likely won’t be the case and if it is, he’s not a good friend to begin with). If you just wanna be friends make sure you are clear about it and back up your words with actions. This is kinda a personal thing, but make sure you aren’t missing him just because of the physical things you guys did. Make sure you miss him because he was your friend and you really care about him. Goodluck with everything♥

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Anonymous: My boyfriend the type of guy to watch out. He's cheated on me before and honestly i don't know why i stay with him but anyways. I've been with my boyfriend for over three years already and lately he's been hiding stuff from me. And like i said he has cheated on me before. I just don't want something to happen and then have it be nothing because our relationships going good. I don't know what to do. Help?

Communication is key. You guys should be open with each and be able to discuss everything. If you cant.. together you guys need to work on communication skills. He doesn’t know how you feel unless you tell him exactly what’s on your mind. Try and work through it together, if you can’t the decision is yours. You know what’s best for you, but NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE! I wish you the best♥

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Anonymous: maybe this is strange to ask but I didn't know who to go to. I think I might have a yeast infection. I'm just such a girly girl and I wanted to know if this is normal and I'm just sorta scared. any advice??

I actually don’t know much about it, so I looked it up. 

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Sometimes yeast infections have the same symptoms as STDs, so if you are sexually active I would definitely go see a doctor. They sell products at local drug stores, so I would try that and see if gets better. If not I think it would be best to go see a professional. Feel better lovely♥

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Anonymous: I'm 15 & I've been with this guy for 10 months. He's really clingy, & I'm confused about how I feel about him. I want to be able to be a normal teenager & have fun with my friends, I don't want to be tied down to someone. But I'm scared that if I break up with him, I'll be lonely & I'll miss him & I'll regret it. He makes me happy when I'm with him, but when I'm not with him I start thinking that I don't want to be with him. :/

I actually just went through something similar. If you’re having any doubt its honestly gonna hurt the relationship. He’s gonna think you are completely happy, when you’re actually not and that’s not fair to him. Don’t be afraid to break up with him for the fear of being alone, your friends are gonna be there for you. Make a list about the pros and cons of the relationship and see which one wins. This is something you have to really think about. Always make sure you are in a relationship for the right reasons. Goodluck(:

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